My main principle in life is to be happy without infringing on others' happiness.

If it makes you happy and does not make others unhappy, it is fine by me.

So by that, if two men, for example, fall in love with each other, and are happy together, then it's fine by me. What they get up to in the bedroom is none of my business, so I don't really care about it - same goes for straight couples, really.

But also by that, if someone r*ped someone else, then whilst the r*pist is happy for a while, the rapee is not - so that is not fine by me.

Whilst not strictly religious myself, I do not mind religious people - if they believe their faith makes them better people, and that belief makes them happy, that's fine. It's when they then start imposing it on other people who might not think the same way, or when particular parts of their faith infringe on other people's happiness, that it bugs me.

One also has no control over who one falls in love with. Believe me, I know people who truly would change who they loved if they could (not talking about gays here).

First person to say "but seeing guys/girls hugging/kissing each other in a couple-y way makes me unhappy!" gets a wall of text in their face (namely, this one, but at a higher speed so it makes a better impact). The anguish of not being able to be with the person you love is much greater than the mild irritation or disgust that you might feel towards them.


This post is about the notion of homosexuality in general (and is largely emotionally based rather than sexually), not the attitudes of some homosexuals towards other orientations - as much as the attitudes of some heteros can stink, so can that of some homos (and also some bis, though I don't know so many of those).

The only orientation that I haven't met one of who has a bad attitude towards other sexualities is asexual people, but I only know one of those and most people dismiss them as a myth anyway, so I can't really comment on them.


Also: yes, I'm bi. Please get over it now so you and I can both live our lifes normally.




Also posted http :// forums.wow-europe .com /thread.html?topicId=2843989450&sid=1 & pageNo=12#226 without all the spaces (copy-paste into address bar and backspace them). The & emote is stupid and breaks WoW forum links. Anyone know where I can whinge about that?

Adverse opinions interest me and I love debating (as I feel it expands my own horizons as well as advancing and deepening my viewpoints), so feel free to comment on this journal if you think otherwise, if you have something to add, or simply want to say "I agree!".